You are far nicer than I. I have little patience with nosy busy bodies. Life is to short to deal with such nonsense more than absolutely necessary.
OCD or not is no excuse to continue to trespass when told not to. Heck just call the cops every time she comes over. Guessing just the embarrassment of having a police car in front of her house will get the message across.
Or you could always answer the door with a sidearm on your belt.
Originally Posted by LeafBlade12345
I don't know if she would listen...she'd probably blame anything she did on OCD which I am almost certain she DOES NOT have. Also, I really don't want to press charges, we don't need our neighbor mad at us. We did complain to the HOA, however, they said they would phone her and address the problem accordingly.