You guys know I've been quiet (for me) for about 2 weeks. I came unglued, ended up walking out. I have a good enough relationship with the boss that this will blow over, but this particular Koozie is salaried, as well, and not likely to leave any time soon. This war has been building for years. He can fake it and act nice, I can't. Got to say my favorite word several times
Everyone involved knows where you stand. Honesty is best tempered with tact, but when it moves beyond that I react like you did. That's why I left where I was at and am happily going on 4 years at this company.