Well, since you asked:
invasive = I don't know how it directly concerns you. Whatever arrangement I have with the farm is between me and the farmer.
assumptive = The question seemed to assume that I did not have permission from the farm.
*** Edited to add: I apologise if my response seems abrasive. Perhaps it was not your intent, but I felt as if I were being attacked and thus responded in defense. Peace.
LOL, no attack intended ... I find it amazing though when people post stories but get defensive when questions they don't like get asked. It directly concerns me 1) as a farmer who raises animals and sometimes has people watch the farm while I am away and 2) because this is a public forum and if you don't want questions perhaps a disclaimer stating such in the OP would be prudent ..
But that's neither here nor there is it? Glad you were able to save the baby Gosling