Welcome to my pond - Swim, wade, or sit on the bank
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Only if I get the first bullet between the eyes
Deb it's hard for me to read your posts, losing mom 6 months ago and she had dementia and I dealt with similar stuff, Oh God I miss her every day but yet I don't want her back to suffer more and longer. I think whoever wrote the song whisky lullaby had to live a loss like that because I can understand the line perfectly putting the bottle to the head and pulled the trigger. You don't want to move on or can't. I am losing the only home I have known, I have lost my mom and the pet that I had for over 15 years that in essence became my best friend thru the struggles with my last job, my disability and mom. the cat was mom's but she lost mom before mom departed us, mom became more and more withdrawn from the world and the cat became more mine and understood that I was owner, I'm sure she didn't know why mom didn't respond to her much then not ever, she just knew I was there and cared for her and knew mom was a shell of herself and I was caring for mom also. My mom didn't want me to kn ow dad's family so I don't know who they are or where they are. Only met half his siblings. My mom's family are so warped I cannot be around them. My brothers could care less If I am alive. 1 told me several years ago while I was caring for mom and her health problems that I was not allowed at his house until I had a wife and kids, the other brother threw me out on thanksgiving day a few years back because I showed up after he invited me. because they realized they didn't have enough space for everyone so they pulled out a lawn chair and a tv tray for mom and asked me to go home. Yea lots of love there.
Family is only blood.... I have a very small family with Very distant cousins. Grandma Mom Me and My son... Men folk gone long ago.
I am 63 soon to be 64 on the ninth. Never been married. Hugs to you... Like me we need to make family of our own... Just people you get along with. I am so isolated right now but hope to get out and meet some people when she doesnt need me.
Moms half sister is gone, but When she was alive she fired her Police man husband when her kids went off to college. And formed a partnership with a very nice woman... The moved on to a marriage with another woman and lived with her the rest of her life.... We accepted Tony as family... Thank goodness because she was happy... They were together about fifteen years before Heart attack took moms Sister.
form new friends and family then cut off ties to the old.... who hurt you.
deb
Got my new dryer installed.... hands still hurt.
The issue was putting the duct hose onto the pipe that comes out of the wall.
Tried to get the boys to do it... they did it the way I did it... but for some reason it didn't work for them.
I think the problem is they looked at what they were doing. Silly boys... not enough space to look at it and do it. You have to close your eyes and do it by feel.
The way ours is set up, the pipe is recessed into the tiled wall... hard to see and harder to get at.
Took me way longer than it should have... i had to keep stopping and resting my hands... then when i got it all on i had no hand strength left to put the pipe clamp on.
I was thinking my hands would be recovered enough... that maybe i would have the finger strength to do it in the morning...but kid 3 (mechanical practical kid) was able to pop on the pipe clamp for me.
So hurrah!! We currently have BOTH a working washer AND dryer!!
Wonders will never cease!
The issue was putting the duct hose onto the pipe that comes out of the wall.
Tried to get the boys to do it... they did it the way I did it... but for some reason it didn't work for them.
I think the problem is they looked at what they were doing. Silly boys... not enough space to look at it and do it. You have to close your eyes and do it by feel.
The way ours is set up, the pipe is recessed into the tiled wall... hard to see and harder to get at.
Took me way longer than it should have... i had to keep stopping and resting my hands... then when i got it all on i had no hand strength left to put the pipe clamp on.
I was thinking my hands would be recovered enough... that maybe i would have the finger strength to do it in the morning...but kid 3 (mechanical practical kid) was able to pop on the pipe clamp for me.
So hurrah!! We currently have BOTH a working washer AND dryer!!
Wonders will never cease!
Good morning Pond.
Mornin back at cha!
It is a beautiful one on my side of the pond right now
Im so sorry Whites...
Did you give him a peanut?
He's a beauty Shaw!
Good morning Pond
Beautiful day here too.. so far..
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