Hubby is not doing well. long post

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Hey Alley, Hope things are looking up for Davey, Take care of yourself. We're thinking of you!

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Dear Ally,

I too have been following this from the beginning, but haven't posted. You and your family have been in my thoughts every day. I can't imagine what you are going through. Please know that I am sending you light and love and best wishes for a happy ending. Sleep and food are very important for you now--you have to keep up your strength--and don't forget to breathe. We all tend to hold our breaths when we are scared or stressed, breathing deeply will make you calmer and centered and help you deal with this horrible ordeal.
 
I'm sorry, Alley, for you and your DH. I am an ICU nurse for sick babies. What I tell the parents to do when their baby is real sick is to sit at the bedside and talk to them. It doesn't matter what you talk about, even read him the paper. He will hear you. Karen
 
Ally, I check for updates every couple of hrs. You and your family are in my prayers. I hope Davy pulls through this. Glad they are letting the kids see their father even though it is tough on them I think it is tougher if they can't see what is going on.
Know you have a ton of people praying for Davy and lean on God like another poster said.
We are here for you if you need to vent or just talk.
Take care,
Brenda
 
Oh Alley, I pray for Gods Peace that Passes all Understanding for you tonight. God's precious peace for you and your DH and all your family. I know this is so hard. I am sure God has shown you that he is with you each step of the way. I nealy lost my DH back in 2001 when he grew very sick very quickly right around Christmas. He was in the hospital in Indianapolis which is approx. 75 miles from where we live. He had to undergo a liver transplant at I.U. The diagnosis was bad, his kidneys had failed, his liver and other organs were shutting down. They gave him no more than 1 wk to live if they couldn't find him a liver. As I read your posts I remember, oh yes I do, the stress, the heartache, everything you write about I felt also. I felt so lost but everyday the Lord showed me that HE was with us. HE walked with us. I am blessed that HE did spare my DH to stay with me though my DH really wanted to "go home." Things are not easy, not even now but I want to "Thank You", Alley, for posting and allowing us to share with you you're life and hurts. I tried to be so strong and didn't allow more than 1 or two around me to know how scared and how much I hurt. That may have been a mistake on my part. You hang in there girl. Remember, God is in control. I saw in a moment of clarity while watching my DH with a zillion(yes I know thats an exageration
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tubes attatched to him that there was not a thing that the Doctors in all their wisdom could do to keep my DH "here" if it was not in HIS Will. That clarity, though only a matter of a moment, has changed my relationship with HIM. HE teaches us that HE is our center, our life comes from and thru Him. Seek His will for you and you're beloved DH. Let HIM hold you up and walk you "through the valley of the shadow of death". (PSALM 23) Let Him be your Rock and your Hiding Place. Sleep well and hugs. I will continue to keep you in prayer and read through your posts. By the By, me and my DH lived in good ol' Colorado for 11 years and miss it greatly. We hope to move back in the future, God willing. :aww
 
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