Not to down anyone but I find it Very sad that people talk bad about family in an open forum even if you dont get along,why tell the world what you feel are your familys faults? More so when one can not defend themselves on here to complete strangers.How does anyone know what is truth and what is not. Anyway like I said I find it just sad.Good Luck .
HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO ALL FATHERS!
Because we're us, and you're you. We were actually all born to be individuals, with individual choices. I may choose to post something you may not. Is that sad? Maybe to you. The only thing I see that's sad in this picture is that some of us were raised with such guilt and shame that it takes a message board to talk to someone else who might hopefully understand, because our own families who are supposed to love us and understand don't. You say "not to down anyone" but then go ahead and post how sad it is that we are sharing our feelings on this board. It's absolutely meant to "down" us, you could not possibly have any other intention or you would have moved on quietly. Fortunately, our bonding and relating of this very serious issue to us will stand out more than your petty remark that clearly comes from a position that doesn't understand or want to understand what we are going through, so why even read or post on this thread? Also, you got your words mixed up there. We aren't "talking bad about family", we're "talking about bad family". Big difference. Now why don't you go look in the mirror and think about what issues you might have that would drive you to post such an insensitive thing on a thread that's otherwise filled with bonding and healing? What you find might be sad.
Sorry you feel I was trying to down someone here ,that was not My intent and I feel you took it wrong .Read My post however you want to I am ok with that .I didnt get My words mixed up at all.I have always thought it very sad that a person feels the need to post negative things about their family in an open forum,that being said does not mean I do Not feel for a person who is dealing with such issues.My hope would be for the said person to have real happiness in thier lives and leave the past in the past.It makes one a whole lot healthier person mentally as well as physically and after all isnt that what is most important?
What I said was not an attack ,hopefully someone will understand that.
Peace be with you all.And God Bless.
Sometimes people need to vent because their families are HORRID! If you find it insensitive for us to post about people that do their best to ruin our lives, I think you may have more issues than we do.