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Originally Posted by
Bunnylady 
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Desirai 
"Too much of your free time revolves around your chickens"
Translation: "Not enough of your free time revolves around me."
Sorry, guys, but I calls 'em like I sees 'em! I'm not saying that this guy is just an egocentric jerk (although he might be, for all I know!) but an awful lot of people get insecure about anything that they see as "competition" for the attention that they want. That's one of the great things about shared interests - you can spend time with someone you are interested in, and something you are interested in, at the same time! But as Oregon Blues said, someone who is really interested in you, accepts the whole package.
True, but we don't really know how much attention she paid to the guy, or whether ALL her conversation revolved around her birds in some way or the other, how much time she DID spend with him focusing on him or their activity (movie, dinner, whatever is going on at school, etc.).
A huge part of the purpose of dating revolves in learning how to have a balanced relationship, and learning what you do and do not want for future, more lasting relationships. It doesn't mean that there is anything WRONG with a person that what they want and what you want are different, it just means that you have different goals and priorities, and that while you are each nice people, as a couple y'all are not really compatible.