Document every thing you have discovered about your husband's web affairs. Hire a private detective and allow him or her to verify what you suspect.
I recently studied a case of a man who had relationships with many, many women. A good looking fellow, this man could charm the dress off a woman in no time at all. And these were older women who were well established in their jobs. While they enjoyed the social life, they were not looking to be married.
One woman became suspicious when she accidentally knocked her boyfriend's phone onto the floor and she checked to see if it worked. She found a rather elicit message, and confronted him. He denied nothing and she left him.
Shortly after, she became ill and tested positive for HIV. She immediately called her ex to let him know he needed to be checked. He said he had and was negative. Suspicious, she hired a private detective to follow her ex-boyfriend, and learned man man had approx 10 women he was juggling shifts with.
With incredible audacity, she made contact with several of these women to tell them what was going on, and she suspected this man had aids. All the women tested positive for HIV. All of them formed a group to stop this man from spreading the disease. The virus was tested for certain genetic markers, and this particular virus was found to have certain genetic markers that made it different from other strains of HIV..
His last girlfriend managed to get a DNA sample from this man, and through all that fancy testing it was determined he had the same type of HIV virus the women had.
A girlfriend of 10 years past made contact with the police and told them she told this man she had aids and to be tested. He tested positive back then. Apparently he knew he had the disease and did nothing about it. He actually told the police all the women consented to unprotected sex and they got what they deserved.
So the man was brought in by the police, and he freely admitted to dating all these women, but swore he didn't know he had HIV. He claims he was regularly tested but could provide no documentation stating so. He went to court, and eventually he was put in prison where he succumbed to the vrus. ago. .
Happily (?) all these women are still alive today. But their lives have been changed by one person who thought cheating was okay.
He actually stated he was justified in his acts because having unprotected sex was okay because his partners wanted it that way.
The moral of this story is to get mad, get going, and do what you need to do to either save your marriage or get out and find someone better.
There are organizations out there to help you. Just ask.
