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post #61 of 99
4/21/12 at 11:07am

So sorry for your loss.  I can't imagine your sadness and pain .....but I will pray for the Lord to give you comfort for these difficult days and nights.  ~Beulah

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IN ALL DIRECTIONS...

Looking Back----Praise Him

Looking Ahead----Trust Him

Looking Around---Serve Him

Looking Up-------Expect Him!

 

 

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2 RIR's----Klara and Addie

2 CuckooMaran's----Lucy and Ethel

 

IN ALL DIRECTIONS...

Looking Back----Praise Him

Looking Ahead----Trust Him

Looking Around---Serve Him

Looking Up-------Expect Him!

 

 

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post #62 of 99
4/21/12 at 11:19am

I am so sorry for your beloveds loss. I cannot imagine your pain right now, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

I also was in an accident a few years ago, I was 7 months pregnant and my other son was still in an infant car seat. It was raining out and I was standing on the side of the road clearly pregnant ( was showing ALOT) and also carrying an infant car seat...no one stopped to help me for over an hour. It was during rush hour on a fairly busy road and even a state trooper passed by and did not stop to help. I was at a loss for words. I could not imagine seeing someone in distress and just pass by...no matter how busy I was I would stop to help or at the least call 911 for them.

It is a sad world we live in filled with very selfish people!

I hope your able to find the comfort you need during this time. God bless you and your family.

~Carpe Diem~

I am a married working mom of 2 boys (10 & 9) and 1 girl (almost 3). I just moved to the country and decided to try this whole chicken thing...lets see how it turns out...so far I am LOVING my ladies!!! :)

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~Carpe Diem~

I am a married working mom of 2 boys (10 & 9) and 1 girl (almost 3). I just moved to the country and decided to try this whole chicken thing...lets see how it turns out...so far I am LOVING my ladies!!! :)

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post #63 of 99
4/21/12 at 12:44pm

I am so sorry I know the lost I loss my son and father april 2 and 7th I hope you are well. try to recall the good times you had with him.

 

Rhayden

 

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post #64 of 99
4/22/12 at 9:23am

So sincerely sorry to hear such a sad tale. I wish there was a way to take away all the pain you are feeling right now-- I hope you are able to feel the love and support from your friends and family---there is a lot of love in this world, and I know that your man is looking out for you from above! 

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 Happy! Happy! Joy! Joy! 

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post #65 of 99
4/22/12 at 5:28pm

To the OP

 

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband (who was 56) a little over a year ago to a sudden heart attack. This forum was a wonderful place to vent, cry, rant and provide comforting words in an otherwise stressful time.

 

I'm not anywhere near you geographically, but if  you need to talk/type, I'm just a PM away.

 

Great pic of him and the horse, BTW. They look a lot alike, rough-hewn, no frills but still good-lookin'

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post #66 of 99
4/22/12 at 5:34pm

I'm so sorry. I pray that you can find some peace during this awful time.

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post #67 of 99
4/22/12 at 7:26pm

Oh, how awefull for you.  I know how many thought can haunt the mind when you lay alone at night.  So many questions, what could be different, if only we could go back in time.  Believe me, it will get better, but not instantly.

 

I was widowed by a drunk driver 2 weeks after we got married, but thats been years ago now.  We dated so long, waited so long, and then over so quick.

 

May you find comfot in your poultry.  I did.

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post #68 of 99
4/22/12 at 9:16pm
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We have been in a custody battle/child support battle for almost 4 yrs now. We had custody of his son for almost 2 yrs.When he came to live with us he had missed so much school he needed remedial classes to catch up, he missed 37 days of school and had 21 tardies in one year!. In 2 yrs he went from behind to a GPA of 3.7. He is back with his mom now and I am so angry. She will not let me talk to him or see him. I am going to fight for custody or at least visitation. That ugly woman's dreams came true when my love died. She got her son back, she now has a source of income for at least 8 yrs and there is no one to monitor his school attendance. She can also do all the drugs she wants as his father is not here to monitor the situation. I am so worried about this child. The only reason we didn't get married was because of her. She tried to go after 20% of my income so she could get more money every month, even though me and The Big Guy weren't married. She is such a sick, sick, vindictive individual. It stuns me that there are people like that in the world. She kept him away from us from seeing him for almost 1 1/2 yrs. We couldn't keep track of her because she moved so much and changed her phone number every couple of weeks. . She told this little boy that his dad didn't love or want him and that his dad was rich, but because he didn't love him he wouldn't help them out with money and food. She also told him that when he was a really little kid that his dad beat her and him and that he should be afraid of his dad because his dad would hurt him. When this little boy came to live with us he was so scared he asked us permission to get a drink of water, use the restroom or sit on a piece of furniture. Sheis also living with a Registered Sex Offender and there are court order specifically denying any contact with this child, yet this child is now living in the house with him. Please do not pray for me, pray for this little boy. I feel so guilty, I messed up. I did not know that when The Big Guy died, legally I became the Parent de Facto and I just let her take him.
 

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post #69 of 99
4/23/12 at 3:53am

I hope you get the boy back. I would want to take him.Prayers for him and you.Sadly some parents do look at their kids as income.

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post #70 of 99
4/23/12 at 4:30am

I'm so sorry for you loss.  As to the little boy-fight, fight, fight.  Even if nothing comes of it, he will know he was loved by the amount of attention.  And, I believe, when they are either 10 or 12, he can become a 'voice' and have a say in where he would prefer to be.  Call an attorney and see if you can get something out of this-temporary visition, a stay, anything so that you have contact with him.  It's so dearly important right now.

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