If I lived near there, I'd say invite me over for a few days as your 'boyfriend' (I'd bring a book or two to read, currently tryin' to get through Fahrenheit 451 but it's a difficult read compared to the movie, and I'd've split the cost of meals). I'm a *big*, ugly, stinky, biker (who happens to raise chickens and has been for 20+ years), and I *love* confrontational people who are nothing but tyrants and blowhards...after I'm through with them, they usually keep to themselves afterward and stop bothering folks. <BEG> heh heh heh
...but since I don't live anywhere near there, do like the others have said, let the law know about that jerk and his threats. Later, kick yourself in the butt and teach yourself to stand up to jerks like him! You're gonna get walked all over the rest of your days if you keep up the way it is now and I sure do hate to see people do that to themselves. I'm the kind who has always, since I was a little kid, stuck up for the 'little guy' or the one getting picked on or those who *can't* stick up for themselves well enough to make a difference even though they might have tried, etc, but it sure does get frustrating 'helping' when those you try to 'help' refuse to learn to at least *try* to help themselves, even if just a little bit one way or another.
lol! I would love to see you sitting by my garden sipping something cool and reading a book. I would love to see look on the neighbors face!!!
I am trying to be better at sticking up for myself. I feel like I have made great headway.