Originally Posted by Woodsdweller
Ummm... Did you ever tell him not to till the garden? Most men don't do psychic..... or subtle, Signs would be a good start.
No we don't and most women don't say what they mean. We're supposed to "get a clue". Just say what you want. This is one I read in Dear Amy a lot.
"We've been living together for X years, but I really want to be married, blah, blah, blah..........I told him it was okay but I really, really, really want a big wedding. How can I get him to change his mind and marry me ? Never settle!!
You wouldn't walk into a McDonalds and expect them to "guess" what you want would you? You wouldn't go into a shoes store and tell the sales clerk "guess which pair I like." Then walk out with whatever style they gave you would you?
Life is not a game show.
Him: What would you like for Christmas? Her: (cuz she knows what they can afford) " I'd like this, this and/or this." " Not well if you can't figure out that's your problem" or "You should know we've been together for two weeks, two month, two years". (exaggeration)
Stick a sign up. YOU TILL MY GARDEN I'M GONNA PLANT YOUR BODY IN IT!! See there's no way to mistake what you want, er is that don't want.
I know something about love
You've gotta want it bad
If that guy's got into your blood
Go out and get him
If you want him to be the very part of you
That makes you want to breathe
Here's the thing to do
Tell him that you're never gonna leave him
Tell him that you're always gonna love him
Tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him right now