Morning (will hold off on the "good" until I have decided .........), all!
The lady from the FB post??? Awesome - glad you'll have a little of the load off your back for the time being with you feeling the way you are.
Not a great choice - as you are still in upset mode clear liquids/soups are better, cream based and or acidic (which tomato soup meats both) are not going to do well.
-- sounds like you guys need to carve out some time when you can be away from everything (and everyone else) so you can sit down and really talk through things. I am a planner and I get how frustrating it is when you can't plan (kind of there myself right now, and it has taken it's toll on things between DH and I).
Sometimes the only way to move forward is to first move backward to find the place where the new path takes off from the one you were on. I completely understand what you are saying, though, as I have said/felt that way myself a LOT lately. In my head I know that the steps we are going to have to take are the right ones in the long run, but in the short term it just feels like failure.