Originally Posted by Wishing4Wings
Sounds like you guys are feeling some stress. Living in limbo can't be any fun.
Very true -- and exactly the conclusion we came to after we had both had time to take a breath -- fortunately were able to actually talk about it all (would have helped to have done that first, lol) and I was actually able to throw myself on the mercy of the airline and got his flight changed *and* at no charge (unheard of, especially since to get the price on the tickets I got I had to buy "non changeable/ non refudable" tickets through priceline). End of the day we are back to being good and able to just be excited about the potential good things this could bring.
It doesn't help that I'm not the best at communicating, especially about my feelings being hurt and aspects of this situation had me feeling very hurt -- I hate that DH sometimes pays the price for the transgressions of people in my past, and I try not to let it happen, but sometimes I forget that he is a good guy and not going to react like others have.
LOL - the funny part of all of this is that DS and I were watching South Park while he ate his dinner tonight and they had a half chicken half squirrel creature.....this creature also had a "at least a mild understanding of algebra"
Edited by Ol Grey Mare - 6/1/16 at 6:34pm