Have you told them that ?? It means a lot. even coming from you and not my DD. thank you. My SIL is teaching them from the 1930s or so. women barefoot and preg. in the kitchen is where they belong and they shouldnt vote or have an opinion . very sad to me. the 16 yr. old has more pull in the house and decisions then mom does. she goes along with this. no respect at all. I teach them respect with opening doors and such for woman but I focus more on what I do and that is running the house , making the decisions ,even weilding the hammer to fix things and that is something he dont do so they are impressed. I dont mean to interfer with how people raise their kids. I just intend to show them a different way of life.
How do you not your SIL? You must have some very good will power!
That is no way to teach kids, thank goodness they have you granny. I've told my son if he doesn't learn how to do cooking and cleaning he will never find a good girlfriend. It should 50/50 in my book. Both chip in to run the house as equals.