Originally Posted by Mutt Farm
Originally Posted by ChickenLady2014
I'm glad that a lot of you have spouses that are glad that you've found friends here. I don't think mine understands, I think he thinks I'm nuts lol. He has his friends
Me too! I love my DH, but he never talks. Never did. Never starts a conversation. Very quiet serious dude. Friends and work people, only talks when he needs to. So upstanding, honest, trustworthy, reliable. I knew that when I chose him. I do live with a stranger. It works for me. Ya'll and all of my friends for sure know me better than DH does. For me, it was much easier when I went to work every day and interacted with so many people! I stopped working outside the home last year. I swear I could fall dead and DH wouldn't go looking for 2 days. It's ok though. I hate drama. I enjoy this family so very much. Love the shared interests and humor and caring. It's all good!
Same here Mutt, unless there wasn't anything on TV. I remember the first five years of our marriage as soon as the fire pit was uncovered from snow we were out having a campfire every weekend. Would do that all fall until it started snowing. We talked so much then, about our dreams. Things really changed 9 years ago when I had my brain surgery. I became very forgetful, he couldn't depend on me to work like I did before. He would get frustrated with my forgetfulness. Now he gets frustrated because I can't lift or work like I used to be able to. No concept of what it is like being in pain everyday. I know he loves me, but wish things were different.Edited by ChickenLady2014 - 12/22/15 at 7:17pm