Twist, Im gonna say it,. The only relationship you need worry about at that church is the one you have with God. Thats why you go. Thats the cake, all the rest is just decoration. Money dont matter, people dont matter . This is just MO . If your not enjoying it either fix it or move on. Its not unchristian of you to want to have the decorations because thats what attracts you to the cake. But it dont change the flavor.
- Tastes like chicken