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Try not to stress. It will not help the situation and your parents do not need to worry about you worrying.
I know that is not easy.

Give your worries to God.

We were in some really bad times a few years back and my Aunt told me the same thing. It is difficult not to worry. Our brains take us to every worst place it can. Most of it never happens.

Keep the faith and be helpful -as I know you already are.
I will keep you in my thoughts.

If you need to cry, cry. It helps to wash away some of the stress. I suggest doing it in the shower so you can cry alone. Your parents are upset enough without knowing that you are too.
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..oh and if you have a dog- hug hug hug. That helps too.

Oh and look into government assisted medical insurance, there are extra low rates and they can not deny based on previous conditions.
There is help out there. Don't give up!
Yeah, its hard to to stress, im not really "worried" but i am stressed... im to the point of throwing up right now... i went to a party all day today, so that helped.

I try, i will keep faith always.

Yeah, i cry when i go to bed. i only cry in front of my cousin though, cause i don't want to make my parents worse. it's really weird, i feel like hugs always help, but i only like hugs from my cousin or best friend. i feel like its a pitty hug from my parents or other family. my cousin it seems like "im here for you" hug.

we are looking into different things. thanks so much!
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(check out my post in my sig, ''someone special'')

^ This is a good post. Your family is very lucky to have you to help out. I hope you guys can work through it, I'll be thinking of you too!
thank you so much!
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I can take so much
'Til I've had enough


'Cause I'm only human
And I bleed when I fall down
I'm only human
And I crash and I break down
Your words in my head, knives in my heart
You build me up and then I fall apart
'Cause I'm only human
-"Human" by Christina Perri

By what I under stand, you feel like you can't take it anymore. Like your would is falling around you and there is nothing you can do to hold it up. Deuteronomy 31:6-New International Version (NIV)-
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Life is hard. That's the most true thing anyone has ever said. But even though life is hard, we still live it. There is always something or someone we go though all the pain, stress and anger of life for. That is why we live, we live to live, love, serve God first and others second, and praise God. Don't let the devil bring you down, That's what he wants is to ruin you, but God want's to bring you up

God's voice leads you, stills you, reassures you, enlightens you, encourages you, comforts you, calms you, and convicts you. The devil's voice pushes you, rushes you, frightens you, confuses you, discourages you, worries you, obsesses you, and condemns you.

I pray you hear the voice of God tonight and all though your life. Remember that when you feel lost and confused, broken or unloved God is there to guide, build you up and love you.
I pray that He helps you through the rough patches and answers you prays. I will pray that he heals your dad and helps your life get back on track.
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PM me. I'm hear if you need to just talk. I'm a good listener. I won't replay if you want, sometimes being able to just talk helps.
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Seriously, if you need to talk let me know.
 
I can take so much
'Til I've had enough


'Cause I'm only human
And I bleed when I fall down
I'm only human
And I crash and I break down
Your words in my head, knives in my heart
You build me up and then I fall apart
'Cause I'm only human
-"Human" by Christina Perri

By what I under stand, you feel like you can't take it anymore. Like your would is falling around you and there is nothing you can do to hold it up. Deuteronomy 31:6-New International Version (NIV)-
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Life is hard. That's the most true thing anyone has ever said. But even though life is hard, we still live it. There is always something or someone we go though all the pain, stress and anger of life for. That is why we live, we live to live, love, serve God first and others second, and praise God. Don't let the devil bring you down, That's what he wants is to ruin you, but God want's to bring you up

God's voice leads you, stills you, reassures you, enlightens you, encourages you, comforts you, calms you, and convicts you. The devil's voice pushes you, rushes you, frightens you, confuses you, discourages you, worries you, obsesses you, and condemns you.

I pray you hear the voice of God tonight and all though your life. Remember that when you feel lost and confused, broken or unloved God is there to guide, build you up and love you.
I pray that He helps you through the rough patches and answers you prays. I will pray that he heals your dad and helps your life get back on track.
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PM me. I'm hear if you need to just talk. I'm a good listener. I won't replay if you want, sometimes being able to just talk helps.
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Seriously, if you need to talk let me know.

Omg, im crying right now! the grace of God is the only thing that is keeping me going right now. Thank you so much! I might take you up on that offer thank you! "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” I read that all the time! Thanks again!
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Daddas, hug your parents, they need it from you.

They might feel uncomfortable in the beginning, but just hold them anyway.

The scary thing as a child is that you depend on your parents to hold it all together, and that is the way it is supposed to be. They are your safety net.

As an adult, knowing that our children depend upon us, when things start to fall apart, we get scared. It is so nice-wonderful- important- to have a child like you... It is the glue that holds us together.

Chin up. Try to find humor and stay positive. It is good medicine.
 
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Omg, im crying right now! the grace of God is the only thing that is keeping me going right now. Thank you so much! I might take you up on that offer thank you! "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” I read that all the time! Thanks again!
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no prob. God is ALWAYS there for you and so am I. I will keep you in my prayers.
 
no prob. God is ALWAYS there for you and so am I. I will keep you in my prayers.

Amen! God is a shield and fortress for all who love him and cry out to him! I say the same as AmericanoBlue - if you need to talk/get things off your chest please feel free to PM me. I've gone through alot of tough stuff in the last 2-3 years, and I've found many strengthening verses if you want to hear them. Remember to PRAY. Pray, pray and pray! Cry out! Cry out to God and ask him for help! He 'will never leave you nor forsake you"!
 
If God says do not fear 365 times in the Bible, you have to believe he is telling the truth. God never lies once and if he says something that many times he means it. Do not fear tomorrow. Do not fear the present. God is with you. He is giving you these challenges for a reason. Trust him. Don't turn away from him. HE LOVES YOU! He will never abandon you. God is your rock. Your foundation. Your resting place. Your salvation. He died for you. He can't bare to live without you. He's crazy about you. You have to love and trust him back. He will never leave you nor forsake you. God is there for you. Cry to him. Sing to him. Shout to him. Call to him. Talk to him. He is always listening! He loves you and is not about to leave you or abandon your family.

If God is for you, who can be against you? The creator of the WHOLE universe loves you! That's all you need to know.

God Loves You, Daddas Pumpkin. You are worth more than gold to him. He would rather die than live without you. Hold onto Jesus!!!

Isaiah 41:10 "Fear not for I am with you. Fear not for I am your God, I will strengthen you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."
 
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thanks guys... i haven't been in the mood to reply. I hope you understand. Please read my last posts in "dedicated to someone special" (in my signature)
 

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