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He's largely to blame. He, my brother, has had no meaningful contact with anyone in the family for over 25 years. He called my mom a couple days after dad died and talked with her for about 5 minutes and we haven't heard from him since.
He has a 20 year old daughter I've never laid eyes on or even heard her voice.
Can you say 'dysfunctional family'?
Well, you're not alone. I think most people have some measure of dysfunction in their families. Many years ago, my worthless aunt fed my mothers addictions in an attempt (and she very much succeeded) to swindle any money she could out of her. That's not to say that my mom had no blame in that whole ordeal, but my aunt is a crafty old sow. I didn't speak to her for almost 15 yrs and she knew why and that she wasn't allowed in my family life anymore. I gave in when she wanted to visit Ma on her death bed. I've got no reason to speak to her after that.

Sometimes you're just better off without them. That whole "blood is thicker than water" bit doesn't hold any weight if they are a pile of shite :confused:
 
Who raised his son then if it was not him and his wife?
They did. But kicked him to the curb when he was 18. He had no job, no money, no nothing. Went to live with a friend until my oldest niece found him on FB. My parents said he could come up and stay with them so my sister and BIL went down and got him and it's been all downhill since then.
He's made zero progress in self improvement and can't even support himself. He turned 30 just before Christmas.
 
Sometimes you're just better off without them. That whole "blood is thicker than water" bit doesn't hold any weight if they are a pile of shite :confused:
Absolutely!
I won't allow drama or disrespect inside my sanctuary. I'll walk out if you start it in yours when I'm there. It's very simple really.
 

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