Hi Everyone: My 89 year old grandfather is going down hill quickly. He fell and broke his shoulder the end of March and he fall again yesterday and was laying out int he rain for who knows how long and my grandmother admitted that he has fallen at least two times before that yet. He has what they call "Sundowner's" he doesn't know whether it's night or day. He gets up in the middle of the night and gets ready for the day. He asks my grandmother "who are you, are you my wife?" He has her nuts, but she will not take him to a doctor because she doesn't want them to take his license away. Well, they should be taken away. I have convinced her that a doctor may be able to help him, so a doctor appointment is in the works. I told my mother that the keys or the cars need to be taken away because he can't be driving. My grandmother insists he's a good driver in town, he just doesn't know directions. What a hoot. My husband put alarms on the doors to alert my grandmother if Pappy starts to wonder at night and she doesn't hear him. My mother and her brother seem apprehensive in taking the keys/car away and I don't want to overstep my boundaries, but I guess I may have to. Anyone else out there having to face something like this? Any help would be appreciated.