My 19 year old daughter called me Friday to inform me she has enlisted in the Army National Guard. Although I don't like the idea, I figured I would not give her too much greif over it. She recently dropped out of college and I think it will be a great way for her to get the money she needs to pursue her education as well as help her grow up. Well, she called this morning to tell me that she and her boyfriend are going to the Justice of the Peace Monday, to be married They haven't been together long but they want to marry before she leaves for boot camp. I think it's a control issue but I didn't say that to her. I asked that she pray for guidance and I congradulated her. Of course, every mom has a wedding dream for their child and I don't want to be selfish so I will obey her wishes that it only be the 2 of them there. I guess I just don't understand and I am really hurt and confused.