I just have to vent... Just got a call from one of the assistant principals at his high school. "Your son" was caught in an area of the school that he shouldn't have been in with a group of boys, it appeared they were smoking... "your son" is not being cooperative with administration... you need to come pick him up, he is suspended for the rest of the week (which means until after Jan. 1 since they get out on Friday.) This means he will miss his EOCs, which means that he could fail his classes. All because he doesn't want to cooperate and "snitch" on his "friends" (I don't know what they want him to tell them)... they gave him another chance to cooperate with them after letting me speak to him, and me telling him that he had better cooperate with them RIGHT NOW! His reply to me... "I didn't do anything, Mom." Yeah right, and I fell off a turnip truck this morning. He is currently grounded at home for 2 months, until the end of January, for I guess what he would consider "not doing anything" after we found cigarettes and an illegal substance on him... this within weeks of being grounded for a month for the VERY SAME THING in Oct. What do we do with this kid, grounding him from everything except his bed and food is not hurting him enough to make him change his behavior! HELP!