My husband and I are ready to pick up our daughter and leave. We're at my grandma's house because I've never moved out and the rent is free. Awesome, right? We get free roofing, free food, and immediate babysitting available. It's why I have tried to stay here this past year. But she is driving us insane! She always seemed to like my husband before we got engaged, but then she started trying to introduce me to new guys. Once we got married, she started telling me hurtful things (i.e. I look pregnant, my job isn't good enough, I don't communicate well because I'm a hitch, etc) and making it sound like my DH is the one saying these things to other people. She blames things on my husband, like a long distance call she was charged when we have our own phones. And worst of all, if my DD is crying, I either have to pry her out of my grandma's arms or she tries to pull her out of mine; she comes in our room at night to make sure we put DD to bed correctly; she changes doctor appointments so she can make it and talk over me; and tells my husband we'll lose our daughter if anyone knew how abusive I am. Abuse, apparently, being taking my daughter for naps when she cries about it. To me, free living is not worth this everyday fighting. I can't tell her how hurtful she's being because my grandpa jumps in and yells at me to shut up and back off. We're looking at rental places today, and she is crying at me that I'm traumatizing DD, am too inexperienced, and need to stay here. The last time we found a good place, she drove to it and cussed everyone out and ripped up the paperwork. My husband leaves for boot camp the 5th, and when he gets back we're being stationed, so should I suck it up here or get out for a little while beforehand? I'm just worried staying will mean increased bullying from my grandma since my DH won't be here to back me up.