Wondering if anyone out there has teen to 20's sons or been through those years and have wisdom to share? Discussions about respect etc just seem to go nowhere. I try and just keep plugging away to try and teach them. I am willing to let them live their own lives and suffer consequenses they have created when they are out on their own but issues come up when they are needing some help and of course we help. Let them move back home. Hmmm, do they ever see the light? I have done my best but doesn't seem good enough. I am flabbergasted with this age and their attitudes. Want to blame it on outside influences but can't help but feel I have failed in some way. Anyone?