I was noticing that I am way different. We don't live in a big city persay, but I'm just different. The always look nice, have just 2 kids, would never consider having the "pets" i have. The seem to always be dressed nice to go to the store, with makeup on, and say the never have time for anything, they are to busy. And here i am with 6 kids at home, have a huge garden, chickens, turkeys, and now (ducks) not to mention non feathered pets. I'm usually without makeup, unless we are at church. Don't give a hoot about clothes, and sometimes just dirty from working with the chickens/yard and will go right to the store like that, I don't care! I noticed this when 2 friends stopped by yesterday, I had a naked kid in the kiddie pool (which I don't think they would do) surronded by my chickens, in my garden, hair pulled back and covered with DE. Then I went to my moms, weeded her garden, and then went to the store. My friends made a comment though that they would be screwed if all the luxuries were taken away and they had to live with just what they know, but I would probably make it. Didn't know how to take that one.