My son has picked up sticking his tounge out at us, calling us stinky head, yelling while trying to get what he wants, and just being a general terror. My oldest son (2 years older) was NEVER like this. I dont understand Weve raised them the same way but my youngest (will be 4 in November) is just out of control. Sometimes I wonder if people think we are bad parents.. When he yells I make him ask me in a calmer voice 'Mommy, may I please...' But it still hasnt stopped (going on for WEEKS now) I dont know what to do about the tounge issue. He does it at home AND in public. He calls us meaners and stinky heads when we tell him to do something in public and private. Honestly I dont even know where hes getting it from. We never have called anyone a meaner (or meanie) or a stinky head. I dont know if its the neighbor kids (who have taught my kids to say 'Im not going to be your friend anymore if you dont do this') Any suggestions??