so many of you might remember that my best friend became unexpectadly pregnant. i had a hard time dealing with it, as my hubby and i have been trying to get pregnant again for a few years and its not happening i am ok with it now and have been supporting her the entire way... she is due november 25 th. i have spent a lot of money on her and the baby litteraly our spare room (nursery some day) is full of things for her and her soon to be son. i just found out that she is planning a baby shower, i was excited until i realized im not invited. period. my mom, my sisters my brother all invited. not me tho. i didnt recieve an invitation 2 weeks ago when everyone else got theirs. i had hoped it had gotten lost in the mail. but i guess im not getting one. my mom hinted around to J that i hadnt recieved mine.. all J said was 'oh, So?' wow. some best friend huh? i guess i need to pick my friends better. i dont know. she hasnt hardly been around since 3 weeks ago. and now this. what did i do wrong? i have no idea. we have been best friends for a long time now. i have all this baby stuff that i had bought for her in her color and theme that she wanted. litterally over 300 bucks worth of things i found at yard sales all summer. plus all the outfits... im not sure what to do now. she wont even answer the phone when i call. ignores my knock when i go over. im so sad, and upset. been crying like crazy for a hour or so. im devestated. and i dont know how to deal with this kind of thing. she told me 3 months ago she didnt want a baby shower so i didnt plan it... *sigh* thanks for reading and letting me bawl on your shoulders..