I will try and make this as brief as I can but I have to get this off my chest.
My son is not a child of my DH. DH has been "dad" to my son for 16 years now.
DS just turned 18 (on friday) we had our celebration with my mom yesterday, she lives 2 hours away from where we live. the EX lives 10 minutes from my mom. So I decided to schedule things so that I could drop DS off at bio dads place on our way home from my moms so he can celebrate his birthday with her father.
Quick history:
Bio dad walked out of sons life when son was 6 months old, bio dad never paid one cent in child support because he hid from the courts until he was caught off guard in august 2009.
When I was on the phone with bio-dad i made sure he was aware because I was transporting son out there he is responsible for making sure son has transportation home (ie bus fare $13.45) He said he would get him on the train/bus home... I just got a call from son... bio dad dropped him off at the station and said.. "well you know I dont work ... and well i dont have your train fare home"
. son just called me and i charged it to my visa so son is now on his way home.
when I dropped my son off bio dad was just walking up the front steps with a case of beer in his hand.
Ever since son had met bio dad he had stopped calling my DH dad and now calls him by his first name.. and calls my EX dad... after this I swear I will never facilitate a visit between my ds and his bio dad
My son is not a child of my DH. DH has been "dad" to my son for 16 years now.
DS just turned 18 (on friday) we had our celebration with my mom yesterday, she lives 2 hours away from where we live. the EX lives 10 minutes from my mom. So I decided to schedule things so that I could drop DS off at bio dads place on our way home from my moms so he can celebrate his birthday with her father.
Quick history:
Bio dad walked out of sons life when son was 6 months old, bio dad never paid one cent in child support because he hid from the courts until he was caught off guard in august 2009.
When I was on the phone with bio-dad i made sure he was aware because I was transporting son out there he is responsible for making sure son has transportation home (ie bus fare $13.45) He said he would get him on the train/bus home... I just got a call from son... bio dad dropped him off at the station and said.. "well you know I dont work ... and well i dont have your train fare home"
when I dropped my son off bio dad was just walking up the front steps with a case of beer in his hand.
Ever since son had met bio dad he had stopped calling my DH dad and now calls him by his first name.. and calls my EX dad... after this I swear I will never facilitate a visit between my ds and his bio dad