Relationships are complicated. I think we all know that. So here is my complicated relationship, and I would like your opinion on what to do...
Ive known this guy... lets call him Bob... since 6th grade ( I am now a junior). Yesterday, Bob and his girlfriend came over to my house for a pool party. His girlfriend is sweet and nice and quirky. They ve been dating for 2-3 weeks now. Bob tends to fall, and fall hard when he dates someone. During the party his girlfriend recived a call from her parents that she needs to break up with Bob. They decided to tell her parents that they broke up but actually keep going out. His girlfriend then left shortly after. Bob, 2 other friends of mine, and I then went swimming. He taught me how to through a football, and then we all were tackling each other in the water trying to steal it from each other. He choose to be on my team (even though I still sucked at throwing a football) and would still tackle me and pick me up and play around physically. He told me that he could come out during the summer to teach me guitar and hang out. I drove him home and when I got back a friend of mine told me that he had told.. Julia... that if things didnt work out with his girlfriend, then I was his other choice.
Here's the problem:
Julia, who is a good friend, happens to be in love with Bob since 7th grade
Bob has a girlfriend, and a nice one at that
I like him...
So he is probably coming over sometime this week. What im asking is for your opinon. If he asks me to go out with him should I (since I do like him) or would that make me a bi*& for going out with a good friends crush??
Ive known this guy... lets call him Bob... since 6th grade ( I am now a junior). Yesterday, Bob and his girlfriend came over to my house for a pool party. His girlfriend is sweet and nice and quirky. They ve been dating for 2-3 weeks now. Bob tends to fall, and fall hard when he dates someone. During the party his girlfriend recived a call from her parents that she needs to break up with Bob. They decided to tell her parents that they broke up but actually keep going out. His girlfriend then left shortly after. Bob, 2 other friends of mine, and I then went swimming. He taught me how to through a football, and then we all were tackling each other in the water trying to steal it from each other. He choose to be on my team (even though I still sucked at throwing a football) and would still tackle me and pick me up and play around physically. He told me that he could come out during the summer to teach me guitar and hang out. I drove him home and when I got back a friend of mine told me that he had told.. Julia... that if things didnt work out with his girlfriend, then I was his other choice.
Here's the problem:
Julia, who is a good friend, happens to be in love with Bob since 7th grade
Bob has a girlfriend, and a nice one at that
I like him...
So he is probably coming over sometime this week. What im asking is for your opinon. If he asks me to go out with him should I (since I do like him) or would that make me a bi*& for going out with a good friends crush??