So me and my boyfriend, well EX boyfriend were together for 3 years. LONG time in my world. He came over and hung out, I'd go to his house. Every Friday we went to the movies, spent our spare time together. WELL he comes over and I tell him, hold on let me water the turkeys, it'll take 2 minutes. He FREAKS OUT! He starts saying well what if I'M thirsty, will you water me? What if I am hungry will you feed me. His tone set me off, but I just said "you know where the fridge is, help yourself, you've done it before, the turkeys are cooped up, can't get to any and every water source." He says, WELL DANG I NEVER KNEW HOW MUCH OF A *female dog* YOU ARE. TURKEYS TAKE PLACE OVER ME. Now, rule number one for me, never disrespect me, nuhuh no way, NO. I was stunned, in THREE years he's never said that. I started to break down, I mean, I thought he respected me. All I had to do was turn on the spiget, the hose is already in the bucket. He says HURRY THE **** UP DUMB*but*. My brother came out wondering what all the yelling at and by now I am destroyed HOLY CRAP what did I do! I just watered my turkeys. He walked out to me, just sitting leaning against the spiget and asks what going on. "He called me a.... and said I was.... and told him and Jackson (bro) turned around and said, You're dead. Soooo the ex took of in his car, my brother is a BIG BOY, football player build, and is very protective over me . ANYWAY, 3 years and 1 month down the drain. I wonder if he wants his books back? They are in my bookbag. Should there be an apology exchange or just give him his books and tell him tata? Ugh the life of teens, gotta hate/love it.