can one of you great and all powerful folks answer me this, please? is there a setting that I can view the ads, so that it will show me only those folks who are willing to ship? I'm laboring under extreme disappointment, every time I see something I just must purchase, only to find out, they live thousands of miles away, and have local pickup only. The strain is quickly becoming unbearable. mostly tongue in cheek, but I am curious if I'm just not seeing the correct setting.