I was not sure were to post this question but since this is where we talk illness I thought this would be best. My son and his girlfriend had a baby 4 months ago. My son is about to contact a lawyer because they have been living together but they are not making it. She is refusing to let us see the baby and one of her excuses is our chickens. She says research shows poultry is dangerous to babies health. Now, our birds are in a very nice, large fenced in area off of our back yard. I wash my hands every time I come in. I think this is just the beginning of finger pointing and name calling , I hope not but its not looking good. I love this child so much and up until 3 weeks ago I was the main babysitter...then she accused me of holding him too much and I was fired. Does anyone know how I can respond to any questions her lawyer might have. The baby does not go into coops with me at all. Please help, I am so heart broken over this matter. I just want to be a Grandmother to him. This is turning into my family is better than yours kind of fight.