is there a way other than doing what I have done to make sure someone doesnt contact me anymore? my ex ( of FOUR years ago!) had been cut out and filtered on my email accounts, blocked on my old facebook account and removed from virtually everywhere I lurk on the internet... however recently I made a new facebook and she was able to contact me via that ( we have NO Mutual friends which makes it creepier!) its like she was lurking there searching for me randomly so she could send me nasty messages... i know i know, why wasnt she blocked... honestly ... i forgot she existed! Anyway- I have since found out that she's posting on her facebook all about me and how i recently started to resemble jabba the hut and how horrible i was to her throughout our relationship ... and I just want it to stop! ( for the record, I was under 110 lbs when we dated. she was 5' tall and about 180! so really, throw stones from glass houses when i did nothing but support her through trying to start losing weight.Oh and I bought her a car and 3k rims and CONTINUED to support her while she worked a string of p/t jobs or NO jobs) we are in different states but it still hurts knowing that shes posting that stuff for my old friends to read. friends who i can't be facebook friends with because i dont want her to find me! I responded simply stating I am happy, I'm sorry she has been unable to move on ( even tho she is engaged and getting married in 4 months) and that I am happy and have not given her a thought in YEARS. I did not respond to her multiple attempts to bait me into a confrontation and I did not stoop to her level, i even complimented her about losing all her weight .. shes doing triathlons and while i do not care for her i am glad that she is in a good place physically... maybe she never will be mentally. She's still hideous to me ( inside) . My poor fiance just continues to support me and try to make me feel better ... and I do feel better knowing that she can't show up randomly where I am ( because im sure she would be if i were living at home still) and harass me in person but still. I just keep telling myself it will get better.