Daughter broke up with boyfriend and I'm the one depressed!

[connie1966]

My daughters x moved in with us too for 1 1/2 he had issues with his mom also, I know everything your saying feeling been there done that , I told her she was going to regret it , but she's been with this guy longer then she was with the x and they seem like they are happy, who knows she might regret it one day in the future but it's not up to us to determine how they feel that's their choice , you really need to try to accept it you don't have any other choice you can get depressed get anxiety cry a you want it won't change the facts.. It's over and I'm telling you from experience don't let it affect your relationship with your daughter I regret that so much she never forgets it really hurt her ..

 

[feelinglost]

Thank you! I think this helped me so much just seeing that I'm not the only one to feel this way. We do have to have some contact with him because he is on our cell phone plan and he we let him make payments on a car from us. I told my husband he can contact him though because it's too hard on me to talk to him right now. I just hope one day they can be friends. Do you think you and your daughter will ever get past this?

 

[connie1966]

I'm. Not sure to tell you the truth the damage is done she will never completely forget I guess so don't make the same mistake I know anger and greif and love clouds your judgment but be her mom not his

 

[feelinglost]

I will make sure I don't do that. I pray things will get better for you. That has to be hard. I'm sure you fee like you lost both of them.

 

[connie1966]

I kinda did in a way we were always together the three of us and now my daughter lives her relationship aspect separate from me and now I'm always alone hang in there and I'm here When you need to talk

 

[Flock Master64]

I'm here too

 

[connie1966]

 

[feelinglost]

Thanks I'm home alone now too. It's been such a change. I really appreciate how you talked and let me know what not to do. I hope things get better!

 

[Flock Master64]

I wish I could help

 

[connie1966]

My pleasure at least I learned something from this and can advise you on my experience, you have a long hard road ahead ! For me anyway it consumed me for three years ! Don't let that happen to you it's not pleasant you need to just realize this is the reality you don't have control over this and need to move on like it or not .. I'm still hoping maybe one day in the future things will change