Okay first thing is I love my DH. We just celebrated 28 years in December. But DH travels for work, and today he left for Las Vegas to set up for a trade show. He will be gone for 2 weeks. Normally this is no big deal. We have been doing this now for 13 years, and I know that he great at his job. We talk nearly very day on the phone. When we dated we often talked on the phone because of how far away we lived from one another at the time. He is still the nicest person I have ever known. So here is why he is in the dog house tonight. He forgot to move the chicken feed bags from the shed to the greenhouse. I can do it but it is much harder for me, and I hurt all the time so it is wonderful when he gets the bags moved from one end of the yard to the other. (The greenhouse is right next to the coop.) I know that I should have asked, but tonight it is all his fault. This is the first time I can remember that he hasn't gotten this done before he left town. Okay I am fairly sure that if I called "The Boy" aka our son, I can still get a man to move the feed sacks for me. If not I will get my trusty wagon and play tough broad again. UFF DA! Maybe he will get enough points because he did get the water change done in the 75 gallon fish tank before he left. I will have to contemplate this awhile. Or maybe the Mormon Boys will come by trying to convert me, and I will get them to move the feed bags. I am fairly sure that I am a creative problem solver.