My husband was diagnosed with emphysema 8 years ago, and has been on disability for the last 6 of those years. He is home all the time and doesn't do much to help himself. He only goes to the doctor when his yearly medication prescription is about to run out, and is never completely truthful when he is there. I go along and set the record straight, but he is 61 years old, and I don't think I should have to do that. I'm just curious how other people handle spouses who are "disabled". Or kids, or parents.... kind of looking for moral support I guess.