My husband and I are trying to sleep train the baby. We're not doing the cry-it-out method, but that's what it feels like. Right now, I'm in here working (I work from home) and my husband's trying to soothe the baby and put him to bed. It's totally not working, from the sound of it. Is he learning that his mom will abandon him? Or is this really good for him - teaching him to bond with his dad and go to sleep without me nursing or rocking him to sleep?