We have a come to Jesus meeting tonight, and we layed it all out - pick up your stuff or it goes to the dump. Clean up after yourself or you won't get fed -we already have a plan to lock our closet with food in it for us. If you don't like it - move out. Do it or die kind of a meeting. I just hope they really heard me. After my fiance was home today with his veins poking out of his forehead they all cleaned the house. Let's just hope they understand - they don't get squat from us if they don't help. I really thank all of you for your input. It made a difference and helped me form our plan.