Follow up to my issues

[debilorrah]

We have a come to Jesus meeting tonight, and we layed it all out - pick up your stuff or it goes to the dump. Clean up after yourself or you won't get fed -we already have a plan to lock our closet with food in it for us. If you don't like it - move out. Do it or die kind of a meeting. I just hope they really heard me. After my fiance was home today with his veins poking out of his forehead they all cleaned the house. Let's just hope they understand - they don't get squat from us if they don't help.

I really thank all of you for your input. It made a difference and helped me form our plan.

 

[WriterofWords]

Wow, I missed whatever post that originated from, but it sounds like you are taking control of a bad situation. More power to you!

 

[MagsC]

Good luck, you did great and I am glad you stood up for yourself in this!

 

[tfpets]

I am glad you had the support of your fiance, and I hope this helps you feel better. It may still go up and down, but dont let it build up any more, it will only hurt you the most in the long run...keep your foot down...or use it to give em the boot!!! What great news! Thank you for the update, what a relief!
Tina/tfpets

 

[debilorrah]

I have to tell you that right after our meeting, daughter in law left her glass on the table and left. It's now sitting on her bed, as promised.

We shall see, but I am sticking to my guns and my beloved is behind me 100%.

 

[gritsar]

Stay strong Deb. My mom was a military wife and ran a tight ship. Any messes we left anywhere were on our bed at night and had to be dealt with before we could crawl into bed. Same thing went for our dressers. If our clothes weren't neatly folded in our drawers she would dump the entire drawer out on our beds.
She'd have a conniption fit if she could see my dressers now.

 

[debilorrah]

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HAHA! My mom too actually. Out room is a diaster area! I have no problem with a personal space being like that, it's the dishes and the common areas I complain about. I think they got i though. They have there own meeting tomorrow to work out the details, so that is progress.