Help! I have a "friend" who I hung out with for about a year- and I haven't initiated contact with her in over a year now. I don't have anything in common with her, and I really don't agree with how she lives her life, so I would prefer NOT to see her anymore. But she keeps calling me...and inviting me over...and I feel like I can't keep putting her off. She's exhausting. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but how do you brush someone like that off??? Any experience? Am I mean?