DH is down in the city where she lives visiting her. She fell the night before and broke the bone in her upper right arm. She is back home and resting. DH is mad as fire. He was with her yesterday when my uncle came and told her it was time she went into a home or assisted living and she had 3 days to make a decision or they would make it for her. I have talked with her about it before. She was looking into them. The biggest problem is the cost. Assisted living there costs around $3500 a month. Nursing homes are around $5000 a month. She only gets $1000 a month. There is an assisted living home up here that is much less exspensive, but she doesn't want to move so far away. I have told her she could move in with us. She has said no, but I will NEVER let her live in a nursing home.