Sorry for the multiple postings today, but I have questions... last week when we got our babies they had no problem being held. This week they complain a lot and would rather perch on my hnad then be held. Is there anything I can do to make them tolerate or enjopy being held? I work 7 to 4 so the only time I have to handle them is at night. They are complaining a lot when they do get handeled - is this normal? Sometimes I feel that maybe I am holding them too hard, but if I weaken my grip them they can flap their wings and move out of my hold. Am I being a softie? Thanks.