So my question is how do you make friends? Heres why i am asking. I got married 2yrs this october and i just can't make friends. I dont get it. I dont smell or anything. The friends i had before i got married are so busy with their lives that they very rarely return emails or phone calls so forget ever seeing them. Dh is five yrs older then me so his friends are okay but i need my own. we are active at church but no one thinks to ivite us or really me to anything. if we have a bonfire lots of people show up but no one wants to spend one on one time w me. im been trying to find someone to go walking w but everyone has something else to do or they back out at the last minute. i was trying to get some coworkers together to go out to lunch and the one girl flat out told me that she couldn't be friends with me because im married and she doesn't want to have old or married friends. so i was like ok that kinda hurts but oh well. Im trying to find a new job so maybe that will help. and im trying to find some crochet or knitting groups in my area 2. once i find a new job im going to volunteer at the pound. so hopefully that will open up some more intresting people. I used to have tons of friends and always leading some sort of Bible study or some other group and now its like i have the black death. I just dont get it. I mean im only 21 not going to die anytime soon. But enough complaining does anyone have any tips for me? Im to the point of moving in town so at least ill have neighbors to talk to.