Hey all, I need help. My 5 yr old is so obstinate. I'm not sure how much this has to do with his personality or the fact that when he was younger (like 6mo to 3yrs) when he cried the would pass out - fall down, lips blue and pee his pants. Because of the passing out spells we would try and do anything to stop him from crying. But now, he is defiant with everything, has to disagree and constantly pestering his 10 and 3yr old brothers. I'm afraid that if I dont nip this in the bud he is going to get worse and no just disrespect me and my husband, but end up in serious trouble. Any ideas??