So, as a rule.. i am in charge of kids, etc.. I do drop off's, pick ups.. Birthday parties etc.. so, I never have any me time..Would like a shower without kids coming in and out.. But whatever I can live with that.. but every now and then I need a little me time... So I told DH, this am, when he was leaving for today.. Tomorow is all yours.. IE, he takes care of kids, meals etc.. So tonight he got home after being gone all day, his BF said to me.. What are you doing tomorow? I say Not much.. He looks at DH ands says well good, will be over in am to get you, we will get wood.. huh, really this was a set up right? An hour later, Dh says, if your gonna be here, why don't you watch dear niece.. A baby for a few hours.. I don't mind watching niece ... Bu this is my BIL second day of ever watching his baby for the day.. SIL went back to work and he's getting quick training on watching his DD.... . I would love to see niece and have our kids play together, They really don't see each other enough, as far as I'm concered.. But really, was gonna be my one day , in like the last 6 months to do whatever.. DH didn't know (cause I never told him) was gonna take dog for a big walk, talk my first yoga class, and pull out all winter clothes and put summer clothes away... Really.. Gonna make the best of it, can't wait to have her here!! Were gonna have a blast.. But I guess no long walk, or yoga.. Really need to start taking of myself... How do I carve out my time, without pissing people off? Am I being selfish for wanting me time?