my black java has been on the nest steady for 9 days. she is looking bad--won't leave the nest for food or water AT ALL when i see her. i don't want to hatch out my eggs right now, but the lady down the road who has jeanne line FCBMs is hatching eggs TODAY. is it too soon, doing it tonight? or is 9 days enough to cue her in to expecting babes? anyone have experience with this?