I really think she's a little lady, just by her voice and face and feathers and femineness. her name is Michiko, it means 'child of a thousend beautys'
I havent been online this afternoon what with being outside and having a mean internet connection, just wanted to say what a pretty silkie/color! I would think he's about 10 weeks old at least, how long have you had him? I also think with the split comb he appears to be a boy, but with his nature, you should have no issues, he could be like my original Snowball, he was so cool, almost like a parrot that didnt talk, very friendly and sweet!
Enjoy your bird ...
PS....sometimes it takes people a while to respond...they're out with their chickens for a while