I have a neighbor that gets anywhere from 15 20 dozen eggs at one time and I allow her to pay me when she can. Her entire family (brothers, sisters, etc.) all love farm fresh eggs and she gets eggs for them. She has been doing this for years with no problem. She always pays up. A few months ago, she told me that there is a feed store that sells chicken feed for $4.00 for a 50lb bag. She owned chickens before in the past and she fed her chickens this feed. She told me if I wanted her to pick up some feed for me, to let her know. I would always say ok but never asked her to pick up any feed. Well, a couple of weeks ago, she called and asked for 15 dozen eggs, so I brought it to her. As always, I collect the money later whenever she has the full payment (monies from brothers, sisters, etc.). As I was leaving, she asked would I like for her to buy some of the chicken feed. I told her ok and told her to get me A COUPLE of bags (2 bags). She said ok. I told her that she could deduct the 2 bags of feed from her bill. Her total bill at the time was $30.00 and the 2 bags of feed would have only been $8.00, thus leaving her owing $22.00. Well on yesterday, she came over to my house and dropped off 10 bags of feed. I was not home but had a relative at my house, so my relative accepted the feed not knowing. When I got home, I noticed all of the feed and inquired about it. My relative told me that she brought all of the feed. The feed consisted of 9 (50lb) bags of Grain Screening Pellets and 1 (50lb) bag of laying pellets. I posted a question about this feed in another thread. You may view it here: https://www.backyardchickens.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=270336 Well, after reading the thread, I basically found out that I have 9 (50lb bags) of CRAP! So the question/problem is . I did not ask for 10 bags of feed. I only told this person that I wanted to try 2 bags of feed. I have not talked to her and I am assuming that she thinks that since she purchased the 10 bags of feed that her bill is clear and her balance is ZERO ($0.00). Well , that is not the case. I did not ask for 10 bags of feed. I only asked for 2 bags and it was understood that I would deduct $8.00 from the $30.00 that she owes me. I know I have to call her about the feed but I want to be prepared for anything she has to say. This is what Im thinking #1 She thinks her bill is clear and she doesnt owe me anything being as though she bought so many bags of feed. #2 She may think that I owe her for ALL of the bags of feed. #3 What else could she possibly think? So, my question is ..What should I do? How should I handle this? Im VERY direct and to the point and can sometimes be taken as harsh and rude, so I want to get advice on how I should handle this problem before I blow things out of the ocean. PS. I have known this lady all of my life. She is my deceased mothers best friend.