Deb, don't worry about, I have 3 I can ship to you in the morning JK those are my babies!! On the serious side: I have went through 12 years of living **** with my husband's ex and their children together. At first, I had a great relationship with 2 of the kids, until she decided it just wasn't going to happen, and those kids made my life a living nightmare, to the point that I wanted a divorce and was fixing to file. My husband stepped in and said NO MORE!
We have 2 kids together and my son that he adopted. If we were to split, I would hope that he would find a woman that could love my kids almost as much as I do. I don't think anyone could ever love them as much as I do (LOL) but, all mothers think that way.
Now....... do I want my kids to call someone else momma, heck no! Would it be okay if they loved her like momma, heck yeah! If that makes any sense. In order to raise healthy well rounded kids, I think have loving parents whether from one family or split families is essential.
We have 2 kids together and my son that he adopted. If we were to split, I would hope that he would find a woman that could love my kids almost as much as I do. I don't think anyone could ever love them as much as I do (LOL) but, all mothers think that way.
Now....... do I want my kids to call someone else momma, heck no! Would it be okay if they loved her like momma, heck yeah! If that makes any sense. In order to raise healthy well rounded kids, I think have loving parents whether from one family or split families is essential.