Ok, first a little background. I am 30 (ugh!) years old. I have 3 children, 11, 9 and 5. When my 5 year old was born I had my tubes tied. Well, my dh and I have been tossing around the idea of reversal surgery. Well, situations changed, and now not such a good idea. Well, I am 11 days late, 2 negative pregnancy tests, and everything points to ectopic!! I called the doctor, and they rushed me an appt for first thing tomorrow, but wont give any info over phone. I am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo scared!!! I wanna be pregnant, but not ectopic. It's really not a good time for a baby, but what a blessing to have a pregnancy after tubal. Most of all, what if it is ectopic?!?!?! I just wanna cry. And cry. Yes, I have had many syptoms, emotional (crying), nausea, tired a lot. I'm just so scared of the answers. Anyone else been there? Anyone wanna cry with me?