I'm so sad for my daughter, she isn't sick and is a healthy little girl, but life is already being unfair to her and it breaks my heart... My husband's mom despises me, and I her, but I have a reason to despise her after all the hurtful things she has done and said to me and my husband alike. However, she has taken it to a whole new level, not showing my daughter the same love she has for her "other", "new", "not related to me" grandchild, she treats my daughter indifferently and it breaks my heart. Be as mean to me as your heart may desire, but how can you turn your back on such a wonderful child!? My husband and I adore each other, we get through the mess she creates and we take care of each other, our daughter is amazing, beautiful smart and was created with love and in a strong stable relationship, the "new" grandchild is mothered by a 16-17yr(?) old and my husband's younger brother aged 21, not married or done with school... Yet, it's okay and they can do no wrong, they have been given a car, tons of stuff for the new baby and most hurtful of all support and love for their child, yet my precious daughter was called a mistake and the evil woman dare tell my husband "it was the worst day of my life when you told me Holly was pregnant"... I guess I just needed a vent my poor baby girl, how do I explain to her that she isn't loved by my husband's mother because she is half of me I'm not a bad person, I honor my husband and my family and I strive to be the best I can; she just hates me b/c I am the off-spring of a father who is a drug-addict, apparently that makes me a bad person. I just want my daughter to be loved equally.