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Yes, I do. He is aware of cars (though we live at the end of a long cul de sac and there are rarely any cars anyway) and moves out of the street when he sees them.You let your 2 year old run six houses down the street on his/her own? What about cars?
I agree that people are often over protective of their children and they get a lot of problems from imposing strict rules, like bed times have to be exactly right, the food exactly right, etc etc. This just causes stress to parents and children.
My kids go to bed when they are tired. If I force them to go to be at 7pm and they are wide awake what use is that? Also if they are tired the next day from going to bed too late they will go to bed earlier and sleep longer the next night.
I will also take my 4 month old child out to the bar till late at night. She will just be happy and go to sleep on my knee. Both my children are very confident, and well behaved and are not shy. They love to sleep over at other friends houses and they are not clingy or insecure.
If they don't eat their meals then I don't force them. But they can't have a snack in between, so they will eat well the next meal. I never force them to eat foods they really don't like, and I make sure they get a balanced diet, but they can also eat candy and ice cream as treats.
Actually, the world isn't nearly as different as people believe it is. Statistically, things are not any more dangerous now than they ever were. An exception may be large cities and where gang activity is prevalent. Bad things have always happened. The difference is media coverage. In times past, when bad things happened, you just didn't hear as much about them as you do now. Now, you hear everything. And bad news and sensational crime news sells newspapers and advertising. As a result, the extensive and widespread coverage changes people's perceptions. People think the world is a more dangerous place than it used to be, (whether it is or not) and act accordingly.The world today is far different from the one that I grew up in. In my world we knew everyone in town and freedom was a given. At 3 or 4 I was allowed to go wherever I wanted, and most of my time was spent wandering throughout the Sourland Mt. My method of getting places was walking, riding my bike, or hitch hiking. Basicaly my kids were raised the same way - except for the hitch hiking, that was a NO NO. I had one bad experience with a guy who gave me a ride and one bad experience with a druggy that I gave a ride to. This changed my mind about hitch hiking and hitch hikers. In today's world many no longer know their neighbors, it seems as if there is a lot more weirdness going on out there, and in many areas parents must exert more control over their children to assure their safety. It's a deccision every family must reach and is dependent upon the environment in which the family resides.
Actually, the world isn't nearly as different as people believe it is. Statistically, things are not any more dangerous now than they ever were. An exception may be large cities and where gang activity is prevalent. Bad things have always happened. The difference is media coverage. In times past, when bad things happened, you just didn't hear as much about them as you do now. Now, you hear everything. And bad news and sensational crime news sells newspapers and advertising. As a result, the extensive and widespread coverage changes people's perceptions. People think the world is a more dangerous place than it used to be, (whether it is or not) and act accordingly.